Category: Life

  • E is for Embrace

    E is for Embrace

    When you need to feel loved, I hope you embrace those times as natural and not as a weakness. I hope you have safe spaces to receive love without shame, fear, and being made unworthy. I hope you embrace your bad decisions and take accountability for your actions. Accept it and move forward with new…

  • C is for Choices

    C is for Choices

    Sometimes we choose things, and sometimes things choose us! The colour of my skin The country of my origin My name and my heritage Of these, I did not get to choose any. But then there is life, and it throws at us so many choices every day. I can say that we are constantly…

  • B is for Breathe

    B is for Breathe

    Breathe in. Breathe out! Breathe in. Breathe out! Breathe in. Breathe out! Everything is going to work out well. I know most times our brains jump straight to negative thinking in difficult situations. Maybe as people, we are hard-wired to just go there. Mainly because it is easier to fall into such a loop, because…

  • A is for Anxiety

    A is for Anxiety

    My biggest question right now: How did I manage to get through school with all the exam stress only to get a job and sending emails is where I crack? I want a refund! There is something about clicking the send button that makes me want to read the email 85783 times. It doesn’t just…

  • The Bigger Person

    The Bigger Person

    I am not a petty person, most times I rise above it and let it go. Or maybe, just maybe, I do not have the energy to act and drag out issues. I just want to be done with it and move on to the next thing on my list. So now, let’s talk about…

  • Don’t just lie there! Wake up! 🧟‍♀️

    I have watched and read insane amounts of horror movies and stories in my life to nurture an interest in encountering paranormal activities. 😈 Most nights, my mind starts buzzing with what could be lurking in the dark when I am on my way to use the washroom. I don’t know if you would agree…

  • Why I wake up at 2am Everyday

    Why I wake up at 2am Everyday

    Rule No.3 How to avoid being on my bad side: Do not disturb me when I am sleeping. I mean, it is that simple. So my 2am waking up was never my call, but my neighbors thought it would be a great time to seek the Almighty God in the earliest of dawn. This started…

  • You & Me ❤️

    You & Me ❤️

    Apem- Guy👨 Laly- Lady👧 Phone beeps and Laly hesitates to pick it up. The night took an unexpected turn, but she does. Apem: Hey, I hope you got home in one piece. Laly: (Laughs) Yes I did Apem: I enjoyed every bit of time I spent with you. Laly: Really, after everything I told you?…

  • 100 Followers!

    100 Followers!

    I don’t even know how to begin this! All I know is I wouldn’t trade this feeling for anything else.Thank you to all my followers for helping inspire me to keep writing whatever, every day and even being patient during my lazy days. I wasn’t expecting to get many readers( Many is relative, but this is pretty…